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A little summer sunshine in a bottle

For the mid-winter blahs, a dash of facial almond oil that’s been infused with calendula petals and rosemary. will soothe dry skin and lift your sprits. To make, I sit the jar in sunlight for several months and then use the concoction until the next season when a fresh batch is made. This can also be made with rose petals and lots of other flower essences as long as you know the source is organic. I grow my own so no worries there

Lotusland-A Diva’s Dream

thumb_IMG_7993_1024 Once, while watching a yoga CD, the instruction got lost by my attention being drawn to a giant yucca in the background.  A garage sized yucca.  Almost blue in color.  Where was this?  It turned out to be the blue garden at Lotusland, a 37 acre paradise in Santa Barbara, California (Montecito to be exact) and the dream of Ganna Walska, who spent forty years creating it until her death in 1984.  It was a place I had to see.thumb_IMG_7809_1024

Gardens, those that we create by hand, by our own sweat, inspiration and time, are expressions of love.   Both love of the plants themselves, but also the personalities that combined, form a story, whether it’s seasonal (the two week wonders) or structural (like a japanese garden’s Niwaki pruning) or the mass meadows of Piet Oudolf’s “New Perennial” movement.

thumb_IMG_7917_1024Ganna Walska’s world, originally of unfulfilled operatic ambition,  though ardently pursued for decades, truly blossomed when she purchased the estate in 1941, encouraged by her sixth and final husband who envisioned a Tibetan monk retreat center.  Never mind that he was a rogue and used the wealthy Walska’s money to line his own pockets, when they divorced (after suing and counter-suing each other) she threw herself into a relationship with the land.

Bamboo walk through the Japanese garden
Bamboo walk through the Japanese garden

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Lotus (Nulumbo nucifera) and agapanthus

Her previous marriages, starting with a Russian count before the Revolution, (she was born in 1887) fortuitously enhanced her financial well-being.  As a result, she used her resources (finally selling her exquisite jewelry – at one point she had carte blanche at Paris’ Cartier atelier) to purchase large quantities,  fully grown specimens, and expensive varieties for instant effect.  Her cycad collection is world class and micro-chipped to prevent theft.  With the guidance (although she was very difficult to guide) of excellent plantsmen, she created a collection of stunning “rooms,” distinct and dramatic.

There are over 130 varieties of aloe
There are over 130 varieties of aloe

Of the 3000 varieties of plants collected worldwide, they are not labeled, as “Madame” (as she is still referred to), wanted a pleasure garden, considering plant labels as distracting from the distinctly theatrical sets she created.

Deemed “enemy of the average” by the New York Times, over the top rather than average is very much at play in the use of giant clams for tiered fountains, abalone shells lining a pond, “grotesque” statues in her outdoor stage and the impact of mass plantings.  When one arrives at the rose garden, it seems rather staid and straight-laced compared with the exuberance of everything else.

A nod to formality in the rose garden
A nod to formality in the rose garden

Brian Adams has written a fine, well researched biography, Ganna, Diva of Lotusland, that provides insight into an ambitious Polish girl determined to live a life dedicated to art.

A lemon tree allee
A lemon tree allee

While she never became the international operatic superstar to which she aspired, after her first fifty years  spent in high society, the last decades established her legacy and legend through nature’s inspiration.

My take away:  Whatever the scale or purse strings, create the garden of your dreams.  Think long term.  Enjoy the art of it.

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An abalone shell lined pool

Visiting Lotusland is by reservation only.

A "grotesque" guarding the al fresco theater
A “grotesque” guarding the al fresco theater

Play Ball

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Goodyear stadium/AZ/pnj

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Indians manager Terry Francona signs some love/pnj

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million dollar stretches/pnj

Spring’s pilgrimage to Cactus League baseball denies all the injustices of boys playing a field game for millions of dollars while charging adoring fans $9 for a cup of beer.  Despite the inequity,  we continue to trek to sun spotted parks with pristine outfields, manicured tracks and a slow game of strategy and skill, athleticism and even danger.  We witnessed All-Star Cinci Reds pitcher Aroldis Chapman getting hit by a line drive after throwing a 99 mph speedball against the Kansas City Royals catcher, Salvador Perez .  Chapman will be out for two months.  The game was called.  Royals won.   We saw the Indians win a slug fest against the SF Giants and then the Royals lose to the Angels.  Check out your local AAA ball and the college circuit.  The stadiums are small, the game is good and the beer is cheaper.

The Prospect of Three Score

Since I’ve had an AARP card for almost ten years, the next decade moves me into another bracket for, let’s say, a sprint triathlon.  So with one rotation of the earth, I’ll be competing as the youngest in the bunch.  I’ll need the advantage since it’s my first.  While gardening certainly gives me ample exercise, there is nothing like the challenge (fear notwithstanding) of the unknown.  It’s more a commitment to health than competition.  It’s a commitment to trying new things, to pushing beyond comfort zones.  Where would we be if humans and others weren’t compelled to explore new territory?  As Anonymous once said…DSCN1152Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many.